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Who is Jade X Slater? Well, I am. I am a writer and survivor of life and all it has tried to throw at me. I am a friend to many people who have also been in there for me in this journey which we call life.

I've been told I'm honest, loving, confident, smart, fun, silly, helpful, sensitive, loyal, determined, and so many other things. I've also been told I'm bratty, scarcastic, feisty, cheeky, stubborn, scarily calm, among other things. However, this is how I see me: I am loyal, honest, straight forward, blunt, and never shy away from speaking my mind. Truth be told, good, bad, or indifferent, I will always be me and true to myself. I will treat people how they treat myself or my friends. I can be your best friend or I can be your worst enemy. Love me or hate me, I will never apologize for being who I am.

I'm always up for a good debate and willing to learn new perspectives on issues. I respect that you have your opinion and will listen to what you have to say if I get the same respect in return. This, however, does not mean I will change my opinion. I just respect that you have your opinion and I have mine. Agree to disagree and all that jazz.

I enjoy writing, reading, watching movies, listening to music, lounging about at home as well as hanging out with good friends. When I feel inclined, I also enjoy cooking for friends and myself. My days are always filled with something to do so, I rarely feel bored. I set my own goals and expectations, and strive to meet them. I endeavour to be a better person each day than I was the day before.

All that aside, there is a dark side to me. Everyone has a dark side, no?

For nearly two decades, I struggled with my past. It was easier to push it aside, as every attempt to deal with it took its toll emotionally and mentally. It was always easier to lock it away, push it aside, and pretend it never happened. It wasn't because I was weak or trying to avoid reality. It was a confidence issue. My past shattered my confidence and my own sanity was on the line. I will risk a lot but I will never truly risk my own sanity (what little of it there is).

I'm more than a little kink aware. I am a submissive and a masochist. My past is what led me down this path of being a submissive. This does not mean I'm pushing what I do in everyone's face. I am a private person. What happens behind closed doors will always stay behind closed doors. It's my life to live and I refuse to accept judgment from anyone in regards to what I do or how I do it.

Being a submissive doesn't make me weak. Far from it. It makes me a stronger person. I am aware of what I like, enjoy, need, want, and most importantly, who I am.

My past, dealing with it, and finally finding closure, as well as who I am, is what makes me the writer I am today. We are told we write what we know. This is what I do. Bear in mind, what I write is NOT a how-to manual to kink and BDSM. I will never say all that I write is good practice, safe or even sane. What may or may not work for some may be the complete opposite for others. Everyone is different. The dynamics to every relationship is different. Take what I write as nothing more than a good story.

Plus, not everything I write is about kink, erotica or BDSM. On occasion, I do step out of my norm and write something different. All I want to be able to do is take readers on a journey outside of their own realtiy and place them in another world. A world where anything is possible. A bit of a warning: Like life, not all of my stories have a happy ending. I did say it was the dark side, no?

Join me on the dark side: There's cookies, coffee, cake and even wine.

So, again, Who is Jade X Slater? Jade is a submissive. Jade is a writer. Jade is a storyteller.

In a nutshell. I am Jade X Slater.
 
   
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